温文尔雅 (wēn wén ěr yǎ) | Meaning: cultured and refined (idiom); gentle and cultivated | Chinese Idiom with Pinyin & Origin

temperate, kind, courteous and restrained温良恭俭wēn liáng gōng jiǎn

elegant · refined文雅wén yǎ

gentle · soft柔和róu hé

refined in manner · gentle文质彬彬wén zhì bīn bīn

in a gentle and mild way (or manner) · like a gentle breeze and a mild rain · in a genial (or amiable) manner · not be rough和风细雨hé fēng xì yǔ

refined and courteous · urbane彬彬有礼bīn bīn yǒu lǐ

cultured and refined (idiom); gentle and cultivated